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This article was written by Kateri Berasi, PsyD and by wikiHow staff writer, Ali Garbacz, B.A.. Dr. Kateri Berasi is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and the Founder of Transcendent Self, PLLC, a group therapy practice offering affirmative, collaborative, and intentional care, based in Brooklyn, New York. With over ten years of experience in the mental health field, Dr. Berasi specializes in working with adults from the LGBTQIA+ community and creative industries through individual therapy, couples counseling, group therapy, and costume therapy. She holds a BA in Psychology, Art History, and French Language and Literature from George Washington University and an MA and MEd in Mental Health Counseling from Columbia University. Dr. Berasi also holds a PsyD in Clinical Psychology from Long Island University.

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Being interested in a celebrity, their life, and their work is nothing out of the ordinary, but when this interest turns into an obsession, it’s possible to end up neglecting other important parts of your life. We’re here to help you with plenty of expert-backed tips about how to move past these obsessive thoughts. We’ll cover everything from understanding the nature of your obsession to introducing healthy habits to refocus your thoughts and create balance in your life.

This article is based on an interview with our licensed clinical psychologist, Kateri Berasi, founder of Transcendent Self, PLLC. Check out the full interview here.

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Make an effort to distance yourself from the celebrity by taking a break from social media, avoiding celebrity tabloids, and getting rid of objects that remind you of them.
Invest more time in pursuing your interests and hobbies to distract you from your obsession.
Reflect on why you might be obsessed with this celebrity and how it may be affecting your personal life and relationships.

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Licensed Psychologist Expert Interview. 14 April 2021.}
- Another idea is to unfollow that celebrity on social media and get rid of any posters or other objects that may remind you of them.
- You certainly don’t have to quit cold turkey right from the start, but make an effort to create specific limitations for yourself.
- For example, limit yourself to only 1 hour of social media use a day.
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Dating Coach Expert Interview. 5 November 2019.} Do something you’ll genuinely enjoy to keep yourself distracted.
- Do activities that require a lot of focus to keep your thoughts occupied. For example, play a sport with friends, get work done for your job, or cook an intricate recipe.
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- For example, recconect with old friends or reach out to your family if you haven’t spoken to them in a while.
- If you’ve been neglecting your work or haven’t been putting in as much effort as you once did, sit down and make a schedule for yourself to plan out exactly when you’ll work and what tasks you’ll do.
- Make sure you’re taking care of yourself by eating right, getting enough sleep, and staying hydrated.
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Licensed Psychologist Expert Interview. 14 April 2021.}
- One idea is to practice meditation or do some breathing exercises to help clear your mind and focus on the present moment.
- Make an effort to actively listen to others when they talk to you and be present in the conversation. Rather than just nodding and smiling, respond to their statements and actively ask them questions to learn more about their thoughts or clarify certain points.
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Licensed Clinical Psychologist Expert Interview. 9 September 2021.} Sit down and compile a pros and cons list about this particular celebrity to help put them in a more realistic light.
- This doesn’t necessarily mean you have to go out looking for dirt on them that paints them in a very unflattering way. Rather, think about the little things that make them more human and less like a perfect superhuman.
- For example, what are some of their personality traits that you personally don’t find attractive? Do they have any habits that you don’t like? How different are their worldviews from your own?

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Licensed Clinical Psychologist Expert Interview. 9 September 2021.} To distract yourself from your obsession as well as expand your horizons, don’t be afraid to try new things and explore new hobbies. Some things you might try include:
- Signing up for an online class for a subject that interests you.
- Getting a part-time job doing something that seems fun, like being a barista or DJing at a club.
- Trying new creative hobbies like drawing, painting, or writing.
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- Another idea is to have your friends introduce you to new people. Next time your friends invite you to a big gathering or party, respond with a definite “Yes.”
- Avoid comparing other people to your celebrity. Instead, focus on other people’s unique qualities and appreciate them for who they are.^{[8] X Expert Source John Keegan
 Dating Coach Expert Interview. 5 November 2019.}
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- Set goals that are specific, realistic, and actionable. Break your goal down into small, actionable steps that you can easily measure in order to track your progress.
- For example, if you have the goal of writing a short story, make it a goal to write 1,000 words a day for 3 weeks.
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- One thing to remember is that people often obsess over celebrities because they think they’re “perfect.”^{[10] X Expert Source Kateri Berasi, PsyD
 Licensed Clinical Psychologist Expert Interview. 9 September 2021.} Is this something that you may believe about your celebrity as well?
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- Are you isolating yourself instead of participating in events?
- Are you quick-tempered with family or friends when you hear that your obsession has done something that upsets you?
- Do you feel depressed or anxious around others and spend time by yourself to reconnect with the object of your obsession? These are common experiences for some people with a celebrity obsession.^{[12] X Trustworthy Source PubMed Central Journal archive from the U.S. National Institutes of Health Go to source}
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- If you can identify why this obsession may have formed, you’ll be able to more easily identify areas in your personal life that you can change to fill the gap where this celebrity might’ve once stood.
- For example, if you mostly look to this celebrity for companionship, it might be a sign to go out and try to expand your social circle and nurture positive relationships.
- On the other hand, if you personally identify with this celebrity, make an effort to embody their positive qualities but with your own unique style.^{[14] X Expert Source Kateri Berasi, PsyD
 Licensed Clinical Psychologist Expert Interview. 9 September 2021.}
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- Ask yourself how likely these fantasies are to come true.
- For example, imagining seeing your favorite singer in concert is something that could realistically happen. But telling yourself that you’re going to marry your favorite celebrity is likely on the unrealistic side.
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- Entertainment-social: This occurs when you’re attracted to a celebrity due to their ability to entertain and become a central topic of discussion with others.
 - For example, you might keep up with news about a certain celebrity because you like to talk about them with your friends. Or, you like this celebrity because of the movies or music they produce.
- Intense-personal: This type of worship occurs when you have intense and compulsive feelings about a certain celebrity.
 - If you have an intense-personal obsession, you might claim that this celebrity is your “soulmate.”
- Borderline pathological: This is the most severe level of obsession and refers to individuals who display uncontrollable behaviors and fantasies relating to a celebrity.
 - For example, you would fall under this category if you were willing to commit a crime for your favorite celebrity.

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Question Why am I obsessed with a famous person? Kateri Berasi, PsyD
Licensed Clinical Psychologist Dr. Kateri Berasi is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and the Founder of Transcendent Self, PLLC, a group therapy practice offering affirmative, collaborative, and intentional care, based in Brooklyn, New York. With over ten years of experience in the mental health field, Dr. Berasi specializes in working with adults from the LGBTQIA+ community and creative industries through individual therapy, couples counseling, group therapy, and costume therapy. She holds a BA in Psychology, Art History, and French Language and Literature from George Washington University and an MA and MEd in Mental Health Counseling from Columbia University. Dr. Berasi also holds a PsyD in Clinical Psychology from Long Island University. Kateri Berasi, PsyD Licensed Clinical Psychologist Expert Answer We often obsess about celebrities because they seem “perfect,” when really they’re just other people like us, trying to live their lives and do their best to be happy. Thanks! We’re glad this was helpful.
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Question Is it bad to be obsessed with a celebrity? Kateri Berasi, PsyD
Licensed Clinical Psychologist Dr. Kateri Berasi is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and the Founder of Transcendent Self, PLLC, a group therapy practice offering affirmative, collaborative, and intentional care, based in Brooklyn, New York. With over ten years of experience in the mental health field, Dr. Berasi specializes in working with adults from the LGBTQIA+ community and creative industries through individual therapy, couples counseling, group therapy, and costume therapy. She holds a BA in Psychology, Art History, and French Language and Literature from George Washington University and an MA and MEd in Mental Health Counseling from Columbia University. Dr. Berasi also holds a PsyD in Clinical Psychology from Long Island University. Kateri Berasi, PsyD Licensed Clinical Psychologist Expert Answer It is only bad if you’re not active in your life in pursuing your own dreams and ambitions. Remember to focus on yourself first! Think about what are the qualities in the celebrity that you admire and then try to embody them in yourself! Thanks! We’re glad this was helpful.
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