How to Get Over a Scary Movie You Saw

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This article was reviewed by Allison Broennimann, PhD. Dr. Allison Broennimann is a licensed Clinical Psychologist with a private practice based in the San Francisco Bay Area providing psychotherapy and neuropsychology services. With over a decade of experience, Dr. Broennimann specializes in in-depth psychotherapy to provide solution-focused treatments for anxiety, depression, relationship problems, grief, adjustment problems, traumatic stress, and phase-of-life transitions. And as part of her neuropsychology practice, she integrates depth psychotherapy and cognitive rehabilitation for those recovering after traumatic brain injury. Dr. Broennimann holds a BA in Psychology from the University of California, Santa Cruz, and an MS and Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology from Palo Alto University. She is licensed by the California Board of Psychology and is a member of the American Psychological Association.

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A scary movie can leave vivid images that linger in your mind and leave you feeling scared. Because fear is the body’s response to a perceived threat, this feeling can be alleviated when you separate the world of the film from reality. Try to distract yourself from the scary movie, and take some time to reframe the scary movie as a product of special effects and acting. It won’t be long before the movie is out of your head.

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